New Goals

Well now that i have regrouped (i.e. lost the boyfriend) I can focus on my goals and dreams. WI ho am I kidding it is 2 am I am tired and I miss that man. But not going to put up with his mess. I hope I can be strong when I see him tomorrow.

Money goal for today is to not spend not one single $1.00. I will bring my lunch and make my coffee at home.

Getting What You Want

Hello friends sorry I have not blogged in a long time. I promise, promise, promise again.....I will start to blog more consistently. Any who allot has happened since then. My hot and steamy romance has become a cold and frosty freeze. At least on my part. Things were going well up until about June. When I began to feel like we were not progressing. Don't get me wrong i an not ready to go skipping down the isle to marriage again but dude has become to boring and complacent. He never wants to do anything unless its on his terms and he is not really emotionally available. I discussed my feelings a few times and he said he would work on it but nothing changed. After spending several years in a bad marriage I have no intention of doing the same in a relationship so I called it quits. I must say that I do miss him but at this point in my life it's about getting what I want and being happy.

Back to School Shopping

Today I started back to school shopping for my daughters. I love back to school shopping it reminds me of when I was a little girl. My girls are with their dad this weekend. So when they get home they will be very surprised. So far I picked up two outfits each from this new consignment store in town. I also bought them some socks and undies. I layed them on their beds just like my mom used to do. I cant wait to see tier faces when they go into their rooms. When you are a single mom you have to learn how to do things early because you never know what crisis may arise. And if you are a single mother like me you don't have many people to turn to for help.